Having a tough day? Feeling like your life is not what you were promised? Check out this video and see what this guy has done despite some really bad luck! Have a good day!
http://www.thegolfchannel.com/golf-videos/meet-butch-lumpkin-9477/?ref=26000
Alice
Monday, June 29, 2009
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Dealing with Mood Swings
Do you or someone you love have mood swings? Probably most humans have mood swings but it's how far you swing and how often your moods swing that determine whether or not it's worth considering therapy and/or medication. This is an excellent article I found on http://www.babyboomerarticles.com/. I hope this will be helpful to you!
Alice
Mood Swings: Dealing With The Unpredictable By: Harvey D. Ong
In one moderately publicized case in the US, a man filed for divorce, wishing to part ways with his wife, who had just given birth. The reasons for the divorce were summed up as “irreconcilable differences,” which tends to be legal jargon for “they got each other angry and neither one is mature enough to apologize.”
The divorce proceedings didn't get very far because it wasn't all that hard to dismiss, according to people who were aware of the confidential details of the case. As one of them anonymously commented, the whole thing really came down to the man being unable to deal with his pregnant wife's mood swings.
Among the multitude of things that people might find annoying or difficult to deal with while a woman is pregnant, the mood swings might be among the most complex. Simply defined, mood swings are those sudden changes in the emotional state of a person. These can happen for any number of reasons, with some people choosing to blame hormones and others finding fault in the woman's psychology.
In general, most physicians believe that the emotional changes that women undergo during pregnancy are caused by hormones. Pregnancy causes spikes in hormone levels that prevent fertilization when a woman is already pregnant. These same hormones also affect physical changes in the body, such as increased milk production in the breasts and preparing the pathways through which the baby will pass through during the birth process.
Hormones can also affect mental changes, making a woman happy and perky one minute, depressed and in despair the next.If the woman isn't pregnant, then there are still other possible reasons for them to have mood swings. Even men can have sudden changes in their mood and emotional state. Bipolar disorder is known to cause mood changes in the people that have them. These changes tend to be infrequent, but can occur very suddenly and without any sort of indication that they are going to happen.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) has also been known to cause someone's mood to suddenly and rapidly change, though this is not considered a common occurrence among those with ADHD. Other mood disorders, like depression and anxiety disorder can also bring about sudden changes in mood. It should be noted that mood swings are not necessarily a symptom of ADHD. Anything that can alter or tamper with the hormone levels of the body can result in sudden changes in a person's mood.
These include post-menstrual syndrome, menopause, and puberty.If the problem is hormonal, the best approach is to simply wait it out. Human bodies tend to even out their hormone levels after a while, returning to what can be considered a “default” state. Once the hormones have returned to their normal levels, then the person's mood should return to normal as well.
If the problem isn't hormonal, then it is usually best to find a therapist that one is comfortable with, to discuss the potential causes and the best treatments for it. It is better to seek professional help than let something like this do damage to one's personal relationships.
Article Source: http://babyboomerarticles.com
Alice
Mood Swings: Dealing With The Unpredictable By: Harvey D. Ong
In one moderately publicized case in the US, a man filed for divorce, wishing to part ways with his wife, who had just given birth. The reasons for the divorce were summed up as “irreconcilable differences,” which tends to be legal jargon for “they got each other angry and neither one is mature enough to apologize.”
The divorce proceedings didn't get very far because it wasn't all that hard to dismiss, according to people who were aware of the confidential details of the case. As one of them anonymously commented, the whole thing really came down to the man being unable to deal with his pregnant wife's mood swings.
Among the multitude of things that people might find annoying or difficult to deal with while a woman is pregnant, the mood swings might be among the most complex. Simply defined, mood swings are those sudden changes in the emotional state of a person. These can happen for any number of reasons, with some people choosing to blame hormones and others finding fault in the woman's psychology.
In general, most physicians believe that the emotional changes that women undergo during pregnancy are caused by hormones. Pregnancy causes spikes in hormone levels that prevent fertilization when a woman is already pregnant. These same hormones also affect physical changes in the body, such as increased milk production in the breasts and preparing the pathways through which the baby will pass through during the birth process.
Hormones can also affect mental changes, making a woman happy and perky one minute, depressed and in despair the next.If the woman isn't pregnant, then there are still other possible reasons for them to have mood swings. Even men can have sudden changes in their mood and emotional state. Bipolar disorder is known to cause mood changes in the people that have them. These changes tend to be infrequent, but can occur very suddenly and without any sort of indication that they are going to happen.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) has also been known to cause someone's mood to suddenly and rapidly change, though this is not considered a common occurrence among those with ADHD. Other mood disorders, like depression and anxiety disorder can also bring about sudden changes in mood. It should be noted that mood swings are not necessarily a symptom of ADHD. Anything that can alter or tamper with the hormone levels of the body can result in sudden changes in a person's mood.
These include post-menstrual syndrome, menopause, and puberty.If the problem is hormonal, the best approach is to simply wait it out. Human bodies tend to even out their hormone levels after a while, returning to what can be considered a “default” state. Once the hormones have returned to their normal levels, then the person's mood should return to normal as well.
If the problem isn't hormonal, then it is usually best to find a therapist that one is comfortable with, to discuss the potential causes and the best treatments for it. It is better to seek professional help than let something like this do damage to one's personal relationships.
Article Source: http://babyboomerarticles.com
Monday, June 8, 2009
12 Tips for Stress-Free Vacations
Hello Friends!
I had no idea it had been 3 weeks since I sent you a Crescent Hill Counseling blogpost! Time does fly, doesn't it?
I thought perhaps that since summer is upon us and people are vacationing whether at home or elsewhere, I'd send out this great article I found about "stress-free vacations!" Hope you'll find it helpful!
See you soon! Alice
Don't over-schedule. Think back to your last vacation—did you overextend yourself or visit so many attractions that you ended up not liking some of them? Resist succumbing to the fear that you may never return and so must see everything a destination has to offer, and instead focus on those activities and attractions that truly appeal to you. Take it easy—this is your time off.
Vary your activities from day to day. Visiting large art museums back-to-back can be taxing for even the most ardent culture vulture, just as shopping for six straight hours can wear out inveterate browsers. If you're someone who simply must pack a lot into every day of your trip, try to mix and match your activities. Spend a morning at a museum, and follow with a light hike or garden tour in the afternoon. Save a second museum for a different day, when you might also take a bus or boat tour.
Reconfirm hours and admission. No matter how much you trust your guidebook, or how recently you've checked an attraction's Web page, call the day of your visit to make sure the place is open. Some museums open or close late or early at a whim, or may close unexpectedly because of a staff shortage, a local holiday you're not aware of, a change in the budget, or for renovations.
Plan for inclement weather. There's no reason that a rainy day should put a damper on your vacation. Consider the climate where you're headed, and then plan realistically for the possibility that you'll have some rain—perhaps this will be when you go shopping or to a museum? If there's even a slight chance of an afternoon shower, carry along a lightweight, collapsible umbrella. If you're traveling with children, bring along games you can play, rent a video in your hotel room, or make a list of indoor attractions that you can enjoy regardless of wet weather.
Carry a bit of change in local currency with you. You might find that little unexpected payments are required in order to gain admission to sights, like public parks, or in order to use illumination devices in churches (timed lights on certain parts of the interior or artwork).
Pack light. Bring along just one bag, fill it with only a day's worth of necessities—guidebook, maps, cell phone, bottled water, IDs, sunscreen, portable umbrella, etc.—and take turns carrying it. There's no reason for everyone in the group to haul around a separate bag.
Don't forget your cell phone or phone card. Carry your phone with you, even if you don't plan to use it. Turn it off and use it only when you want or need to, but do keep it close at hand. It can be a lifesaver when you're trying to confirm a museum's hours, directions, or admission; need to make or change a dinner reservation for later in the day; or if you become lost or disoriented. If your cell phone doesn't work where you're going, you can rent one or get a prepaid phone card to make calls home.
Write down your hotel name and address on a slip of paper. In places where you don't speak the language, jot down the name, address, and phone number of your hotel on several pieces of paper, along with the same information for any restaurants, attractions, or other sites you're planning to visit, and present these to cab or bus drivers as you travel. Be sure, if appropriate, to write this information in both the local alphabet and your own.
Find out when museums offer free admission. Many large museums offer free or "pay-as-you-wish" admission one or two days per week, often for just part of the day (the first couple of hours in the morning, or a few hours late in the evening). Thursday and Friday evenings are common for this practice, but exact days can vary greatly—you might be able to plan your museum visits to get into several places free. Keep in mind, however, that most museums are nonprofit. If you are in a financial position to make a donation, it's always appreciated.
Plan a late-night museum jaunt. Quite a few major museums extend their usual opening times by two or three hours one night a week. This can be a great time to visit a museum, perhaps combining your tour with dinner afterward at a nearby restaurant. Sometimes museums offer special evening programs, such as lectures, wine-and-cheese socials, exhibit openings, or films.
With a group? Consider a theme park. Most parks have been planned specifically to appeal to a broad range of interests, so apart from wild rides there are gentle ones that please young children, older travelers, and more sedate types. Plus, many attractions in many theme parks are completely accessible to people who use wheelchairs or who have other disabilities.
Go with theme-park discounts. Local tourism boards almost always have coupons for the big theme parks—and many people are eligible for corporate deals through their company, school, or credit-card company. If you go after 4 PM, many parks charge almost half price; if you go in the offseason, your discounts will be even better. Check around for deals before you fork over your money.
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